A moment of Gratitude ✨

You know… It makes me the happiest person to know that people who I’ve known for years and hardly ever talk to are actually are asking the very questions in their life that I LIVE by.

Next to my amazing clients and class participants, the people in my Facebook feed, friends of friends and beyond, actually have started to include “What else is possible?” and “How does it get better than this?” in stead of “This is just the way it it” or “This is how it’s gonna be”, “I cannot change this”

For themselves, their bodies, their loved ones, in daily life and severe or emergency situations. To not hang around in “not possible” but to open up, to create and the list goes on…

I got these hints from all over the place over the last couple of weeks and months in many different ways and situations, messages, tags, stories… so light and fast that I hadn’t really received it yet, and actually it only just clicked in this afternoon… And it fucking touched me.

For a couple of seconds I was totally overwhelmed. I stood there in the gym and I cried. So much gratitude. In between my sets… lol.

I’ve been ‘doing’ this for 6 years now. I’ve so often felt like I was screaming in the desert, like one would hear me or be interested at all.

I’ve learned to not enforce my questions on people that don’t ask for it, to be kind and not give more than can be received.

And I’ve kept on being it, posting it and making it available.

And it’s showing up. It’s actually showing up and becoming reality.

I know when people require it, they will actually find it and use it.
Cause these questions, make a lifetime of a difference.

Thank you. For choosing. For asking.

What else is possible now?


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Creation all around…

14199248_10153698504400736_8191030736662589497_nFull on creation day and still going.

Awesome Bars Exchange in between and enjoying a glass of wine at the fire with my laptop, such dear friends


Enjoying what all my friends worldwide are choosing and creating. Babies are being born… People choose happy, healthy and possible and choosing more as their own choice, despite all that is going on on the planet.

Very inspiring. Thank you all!


So grateful for the ease and peace in my life and body, and for everyone contributing to it. And for myself choosing and having it.

What else is possible I haven’t considered yet?


Are you twisting your Awareness into a “Feeling?”

Merlijn Wolsink - Feeling - Awareness‘Feeling’ mostly goes heavy in your body.
Just ‘being aware’ of it allows it to stay an awareness.

If you are aware of something and you say “I feel” you make it yours when it isn’t yours and you basically tell your body to hold onto that.

What would happen if you would acknowledge what you are aware of rather than twisting your awareness into a “feeling” that wasn’t even yours in the first place?

Would you rather feel everything around you?
Or simply be aware of it?

Why do I show my body to the world?

Merlijn Wolsink by Stef Lohstroh en Isabeau BosscherHow much time do we spend living with our bodies? Our entire lives…?

At a young age we are told to cover our bodies up, dress ourselves appropriately.
And if you don’t have the ‘appropriate’ body size or image you should cover yourself up all the way.
“Don’t show your body. It’s hideous. Put some clothes on.”
Does that contribute to the freedom of living?

I choose not to see bodies as something to be ashamed of.
I choose to stop beating my body and other peoples body down for so called imperfections.
I choose to stop hiding my body, it’s uniqueness, beauty and everything it is.

I’m not saying “go run around naked”… or what would that take? LOL.
Be smart and be aware of where you are and who you are with. What can they receive?
You could make it easy on yourself to not get undressed when people will judge the hell out of you.
And if you’re willing to be judged, receive the judgment and create a change in the world, present the possibility that bodies are to be proud of, to be nurtured, honored and cared for, go ahead…

Not out of rebellion. For the possibility of the greatness of embodiment and vulnerability.

Have you noticed that children have no judgment of their body? They mostly just enjoy it and they touch and show their private parts with no point of view. It’s there and part of their body… why wouldn’t they? When they get older, all thoughts and judgments they have learned, picked up on and created themselves on top of that, sticks in their universe, which will most likely create limitation in their universe, body, the way they function and even how they do business and the ability to receive money.
It’s not who they are originally. All judgments we carry along are extra weight we don’t need.

What if we could create together with our kids? Beyond the perversion of this reality?
What would it be like if they have a different reality with their body? One that supports them and makes having a body a joyful, blissful and pleasant experience? Their own?

Because… how long will they have to live with their bodies? Their whole entire life…?

What if we were to to give kids the information they require? Increase they awareness, ask them questions about what they would like to choose and create?

What if we would let our kids know at early age:
“There are some things you have to be aware of… Touching your body is not wrong. Showing your body is not wrong. Enjoying your body is not wrong. Inside the house you can be yourself, run around naked and touch your body. You could even choose to do that outside, at school and all the other places you go. That is always your choice. Just know… this reality is a little interesting and generally not so kind… People will think and say you are weird, bad, dirty, and inappropriate. Most people won’t like it and they will judge you. When you will grow older you even have the chance to be send to prison for being naked on the street, for showing your body and touching it. It’s considered to be very wrong, which is just a point of view. What would you like to choose? Would you be willing to be aware of what other people will say, think and do? So you can be yourself at anytime? To dress yourself ‘appropriately’ when you ‘have to’ and do what is required for you to be happy with your body?”

I have lived in this reality long enough to know what I’m ‘allowed’ to do or not do. I know when I can push the limits a little or a lot, or not. I’m willing to receive the judgments too. Just judge me. And my body. It’s ok. Because… It’s not really mine anyway and not my body’s either :).

I’m freaking proud of my body. All of it. And I’m working pretty darn intensely at changing all the judgments and insanity that’s still lingering around that are preventing me to fully enjoy living this life.
And living in this reality… requires a body.

Be Proud. Honor. Nurture. Care For. Vitalize. Be Grateful. Enjoy.

If you you had no judgment of your body and other bodies… what would life be like?

Do You Have Healing Capacities You Are Not Aware Of?

Merlijn Wolsink Healing Capacities Magic Pain Ok my “healer” and “non healer” friends… WOW.
Once again today, I’ve seen A LOT of healers suffer from their own abilities, taking other peoples energetic garbage in their own bodies and be totally drained, stuffed and heavy at the end of the day.

I don’t even call myself “a healer”, even though I am – in my point of view, everyone IS  – and I’m SO freaking grateful I got to wipe out those systems of taking peoples trash – headaches, pains, energies, illnesses – into my body. Done with that shit. People kill their bodies with that you know?

If you are often tired, ill or in pain, you might as well get clear on if you are using certain capacities “to heal” against yourself. You don’t need to be a freggin significant “woo woo healer” to get clear on that. 

What capacities “to heal” yourself and others have you not acknowledged yet?

A healthy, clean and aware body requires a healthy, clear and aware being living in it and with it.
What would you rather be?
Healthy, Clear and Aware?
Or Suffering Pain and Illnesses?

Love you all my healer and “non healer” friends!  Take care of your bodies!
And… How does it get better?