How is Your Energy Management

Over the last couple of weeks I’ve had the pleasure to meet so many amazing, inspiring and energetic people! Thank you for showing up in my life. Hoe does it get even better?

Have you noticed that with every encounter or meeting you have, you meet a different energy? Sometimes it’s light and clear, sometimes it’s confusing, unclear and even heavy. Only a phone call with someone who is energetically vague and unclear can create a lot of confusion that bounces like a pingpong ball through the energy of the conversation, leaving you confused afterwards… Do you recognize that?

Merlijn Wolsink - Energy ManagementHow do you manage your energy?

For me, energy is one of the most practical ‘things’ to work with.

When I work with people during classes or in session, I see and notice that every single one of them is hugely aware of energy: all energies that surround them and the energies they are and have available to them. Mostly they only lack the practical awareness and tools to work, create, play with and harmonize all of that, etcetera…

Sometimes, energies are ‘stuck’ or ‘in the way’, preventing them to live a free life.

One thing I know for sure: everything is changeable.
What if in order to change something, all that is required is a shift or change in the energy first?

What happens when you start using energy as a practical tool?

– You can manage thoughts, feelings, emotions and situations in and better, more effective and easier way.
– You are clearer in your communication with yourself, with others and with your own body.
– You can start clearing and cleaning up all the energetic structures when they show up, that don’t move freely – like anger, being overstrained, stress, trauma and other blocks.
– You will be capable to receive more in your life.
– You will be less tired.
– By changing the energy, you are able to change your body, however severe the complaints might seem.
– You are able to ‘energetically create’ – more intuitive, with more ease and clarity.
– You can change situations as if by magic, as you know how to practically change and manage energies.

This is just a general awareness and possibility…
What is possible for you to manage the energies you have available to you? And to create with it?

What would it Be like if the energies of stress, depression, anger, self destruction and other energetic blocks will no longer rule your life?

My first step to changing this for once and for all what the Super relaxing, freeing and magical Access Consciousness Bars® Class. These one-day workshops give you an energetic ‘clean up’ in all area’s of your life and allow you to get rid of the ‘gunk’ that is in the way, without even saying much.
These classes are available all over the world and I have some coming up over the next months as well.

Interested? Check out or my website – mainly in Dutch, some English available as well.

Would you like to let go of what you no longer need?
So you can create what you would like to create?
What would being in charge of managing your energies be like?

Unleashing Your Own Wizard in Your Life?

Being a Thundercloud & Being Space

How many people to you know that walk around with a big invisible thundercloud? Is it fun to be with those people? How do you – and your body – respond to them?
Light? Or Heavy?

angry_cloud_by_JaponicaChanIn my vision ‘heaviness’ and/or ‘tension’ is a just an invisible ‘energetic field’ you carry with you. Something that usually doesn’t go unnoticed and gets picked up by other people instantaneously. For example: when you show up at work – after a sleepless, heavy night and morning, totally angry at everyone and everything, unwilling to see or talk to anyone, feeling like a little bomb, about to explode… – your colleagues just simply turn around and walk away from you because you’re not specifically the ‘lightest’ person in the room… or without you saying anything verbally, they will say:
“Great mood today huh? Good morning to you too!”

I don’t mean taxes or anything. I’m talking about a Being thing: Being Electrically charged. Basically, that ‘thunder cloud’ could be seen as an charged electromagnetic field: Plus and Minus – Positive and Negative. It has got a certain density to it, a ‘charge’. Like a battery or an electric generator. It is something you can not really see with the human eye – it is something we all “feel”, sense and notice.

091118.3107.pylonThe wavelength and vibration of electricity is very sensible to most people. Have you ever walked by or under and electrical transmission tower or power pylon? Did you feel normal or just a little weird?
Chances are high that you picked up on the electricity

that is just zooming, buzzing through the air – the positive and negative.
This ‘electrical energy field’ that people carry around generally fluctuates from a heavier charge to more ‘space’ – from heavy to light.


Then there is the opposite: when you walk around the forest, park or anywhere else with more nature, do you feel different then? It has got a sense of space and lightness to it. The sense of space and in general makes people and their bodies relax and get out of tension.

Most people cannot deal with this entirely conscious:
It all just ‘happens’ to them.
It comes down to people not being able to master their energetic economy, so they can actually ‘feel nice’ in stead of ‘feeling heavy’.

I wonder if there is a big misapplication in being positive and being space.
How many people do you know that you see as ‘positive’ people and actually don’t have a ‘charge’ at all?
They are actually ‘lighter’ to be with. Less ‘charge’, more ‘space’ than ‘electricity’.
Usually, they don’t really judge much, which you can sense in what they radiate – lightness, ease to be with and you and your body relax around them.
I like to call them FUN people in stead of positive people.

You can mostly know and sense when someone is judging the hell out of someone or something, without using any words. You can ‘feel’ or perceive the charge.

What if being positive creates a thunder cloud as well? What if being space actually provides more ease for you and all the molecules in your body and – through being that – for all the people around you?

I’ve had clients getting back to me after a couple of sessions, saying: “It’s like I’ve become more attractive and approachable now! More work, more possibilities and more fun!”
They got rid of a lot of electrical charge they were having. From having to be ‘positive’ or ‘negative’ to just simply Being Space with no barriers, so other people didn’t have to bounce off their ‘electric fence’ anymore. They were just being them without a charge so others could actually approach them.

Every molecule responds according to the energy that surrounds it. With less charge and more space, the molecules can be their rounded shape. When influenced by electricity – positive and negative – they tend to become elliptical, to sickle to total distortion, creating un-ease or illness in the body.

I’m not saying electricity and polarity is bad 🙂 It just requires a way to consciously deal with it. It’s there anyway.
In fact electricity very useful in this technical reality and how it is functioning now.
I’m telling you, I’m so grateful for the light in my house at night and for my computer, enabling me to connect with everybody all around the world in a heartbeat.

So how much do our bodies actually create un-ease or dis-ease when influenced by electricity or polarity?
That could be from the electromagnetic charge that our thoughts create and all the other electrical charges we pick up from our surroundings, machines and people.

We’re all connected anyway, at least, that’s how I like to see it. Though the reality we live in is mainly based on words and verbal communication.

All words have a certain charge/energy: whether that is heavy or a light.
Have you ever noticed that some words, lines, e-mails, text messages just make you feel weird and heavy? Some of those have an incredible charge when you read or think them. Those words and messages ARE charged as they are used now, which activates that energy instantaneously.
Ever noticed that when you think differently your energy totally changes? From heavy to Light, or the other way around?

Our point of view creates our reality and every word we use is extremely powerful.
We create electricity all the time with what we think, feel, emote and judge as good or bad – positive and negative – it all has a certain sense and density to it.
So the energy and charge of thoughts, feelings and emotions will most likely impact everything in your life, because that is the energy you are putting out and/or keeping in place to create from.

Those electric ‘thunderclouds’ will thunder, rain, storm and strike lightening as long as they are kept in existence. Everyone is capable of consciously changing any sort of energy.

How do you create more ‘Space’ in stead of polarity?

Have you ever noticed then when you are judged, it doesn’t always ‘feel’ that nice?
It’s heavy or it’s got an edge to it most of the time.
That can be negative or positive – both polarities.

Did you ever notice that when a certain judgment stopped – from wherever it came from – you and your body just started to relax? As if it dissipated? And you could finally ‘shake it off’?
I most likely felt YUK and it wasn’t yours in the first place: it was actually given to you or projected at you from outside.

That is what animals do: when they meet, they sniff and perceive the other animal. When they leave each other again, they just shake off whatever they picked up from the other animal. Whether is was good or bad, that energy doesn’t belong to them, so they just get rid of it.
Animals don’t really function from judgement, thoughts, feelings and emotions, so it’s way easier for them to let go of weird energies they picked up along the way.

Clever animals huh?
They just sense the other animal with all it’s energies, and whatever they picked up, they
I wonder what would happen if everyone just consciously shaked off all the charge of the points of view and judgment we picked up from others. They are NOT yours… at all :-).

For instance:

  • At home, while getting out of bed when you wake up heavy… did you pick it up? From you partner, kids, neighbors?
  • At work, basically… all the time 🙂 Especially after heavy/charged meetings, where judgment just get’s smashed across the table. When you felt a bit restless and uneasy during the talk or afterwards… did you pick it up from your colleagues?
  • When traveling, and all of a sudden you have this tremendous headache… Did you pick it up from someone at the bus stop?
  • When getting home after comforting a friend in a somewhat sad, depressed, miserable ‘charged’ situation, and after the talk they felt great and you felt weird… Huh, funny… did you pick up and take over their thunder cloud?

So, Question:
How many positive-negative thunder clouds are you carrying around, picked up whenever and wherever?
Do you seriously think and believe that all of that  is yours because, just you are experiencing it now?
It doesn’t even matter when, where, from who or how you picked it up… you just did.
Just acknowledge it when you sense that you picked up a weird charge from someone and consciously let it go.

Here’s a Tool to deal with this consciously:

When stuck in a thundercloud, just ask: Who does this belong to?
– and don’t go in your mind to try to figure it out 🙂 – just notice what happens to the thundercloud…
If it ‘lights up’, if the energy shifts or changes, it’s basically an acknowledgement that you just picked it up somewhere alone the way. That’s your energy talking.

You can shake off everything you were or did to make it yours and Return to Sender, with Consciousness attached – creating space for you.

HUH? Why would you return that thundercloud to sender? What’s that about?

We all pick up each others light ánd heavy stuff all the time. Mostly unaware.
Some people tend to do it more than others and there’s no good or bad in that.

All these things we keep on picking up have been passed on and kept in existence for so long – who the heck knows wherever it came from?
So, it’s not even really important to cognitively know where ever it came from.
You can just acknowledge you picked it up and CHOOSE to STOP making it yours.

When you get aware of picking up other peoples trash and heaviness up all the time, wouldn’t it be cool to include them in that realization? So they don’t have to be stuck in everything they have picked up from others, who have again picked it up from others, who have picked it up from others… etc.?
This is not about saving the world. It’s just about creating a change here.

dominoes isolated on white as an abstract management concept for a solution

Consciousness will do it’s work when people choose it.

For example: “Wow, I’m picking up other peoples stuff and heaviness all the time. I’m kinda done with that. They can choose it, I won’t. Thank you very much.”

When one person stops the constant domino-effect of taking on other peoples thunderclouds and heaviness and Return that whole heavy, row of domino stones to sender, that whole row – to wherever to came from – has the possibility to pick THAT change up as well, and become aware of it.

It doesn’t require figuring it out… It kinda works… like Magic 🙂 POOF!

It’s NO hard work… All you have to do is think or say:
“Everything this (…thundercloud…) is, Return to Sender with Consciousness attached”

BAM! You just just did it.
You have reversed the Domino effect and Consciously created Change.
How cool is that?
When you do that, all those people can realize and become aware of the fact they pick up other people thunderclouds, sadness, tiredness, heaviness and other ‘charged’ energies.

Every now and then you might pick up on a thundercloud and carry it along for as long as you will.

What if most of the thunderclouds you think is YOU, is actually stuff you have picked up? Wherever, whenever… It doesn’t matter. Everyone can change their heavy thunderclouds, if they are willing to have and BE more Space and Clear Skies 😉

I wonder what would happen to the planet and the weather if the people on earth would not function from electrical thunderclouds anymore… Ever noticed that people get charged and heavy when the weather goes ‘bad’? Does the weather judge or have a positive or negative point of view?
Would the weather actually pick up on US and Change to more blue skies and space, less thunderclouds and rain to actually let the sun come though and Shine?

It’s all connected… What change could that create?

So now…
Could you actually have more fun clearing your thunderstorms and creating more space and blue skies for You?

‘Who does this Belong to?’ & ‘Return the Sender with Consciousness attached’ are Access Consciousness® Tools.
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