Omi is my greatest fan :)

14720483_10153792430575736_6874230492241329967_n-3Omi Jeanne is wearing my #befree #behappy#beyou gear as well 😍👕

I LOVE you Omi!

Reveiving so many pictures from all over the world from people wearing my design in so many different colors!  

I LOVE it! So cool!

And… I just LOVE this babyblue hoodie 💙

So much 💖 today!

A new campaign is coming peeps… I’m working on it. Stay tuned! 

December STRESS…?

*Practical Energy Management for the Holiday Season!*

Merlijn Wolsink - December Kerst StressDecember stress, tension and anxiety… Is that familiar to you?

For years, December used to be a dreadful month for me, until I started using Access Tools, questions and started making different choices.

I found out that: the more I got to be kind and at peace with myself and the more honoring of me and my body I got, the greater my contribution to the other people around me became.
“Me happy and clear: We even happier”

Even when other people’s ‘busy’, desperation and stressful energies are SO present, energetically prevailing, unbearable and overwhelming…
If it’s not yours, it’s NOT YOURS and you can’t even solve of fix it.

Though… you CAN change the way you deal with all of that… 😉
Here are some practical tools for the December month! Or… for the rest of your life… 😉

*Steps for dealing with December Stress and Christmas Insanity*

1. Acknowledge the stress, tension and other energies when they come up and when you feel them in your body – whether you have words for it or not-
“Ok, I am noticing this right now.”

2. Say or think the following process:
Uncreate and Destroy everywhere I’ve made -everything this is- mine and everything that allows it to exist in my system, body and universe. POC & POD (read more about “Uncreating and Destroying” and “POC & POD” on

3. Send it back:
I return -everything this is- to sender, with consciousness attached -you don’t need to know where it came from for this to work- and let it leave your body. If it stays, repeat step 2 a couple of times.

4. Acknowledge that your awareness of everything and everyone -worldwide- might be bigger than you have ever realized. A perception -energetically, or with whatever sense- is simply an awareness. Nothing more, nothing less. The fact that you pick up on tensed energies others have, and that you feel those in your body, does not mean you have to do anything with it.
“Ok, I am aware of this… Am I picking this up? Is this mine? Is this someone else’s? Ok, I’m picking this up. No big deal. Let’s not make this mine”

5. Then, recognize it when other people DO function from the energies that you don’t desire to choose. You can leave that with them, let them choose whatever they choose en be in allowance of their choice:
“Ok, this person is functioning like this right now. Cool. What can and will I choose?”

If you change and choose your energy while being with others, it usually automatically changes the ambiance and energy of the entire situation. Mostly, you don’t even have to say something about it… you just have to be willing to change it for you first.

How does it get even better than that? 😉

What phenomenal and magical December month is truly possible?
In true peace, that starts with YOU first?

* The tools in this post are Access Consciousness® tools

Being Kind during the Holidays?

Merlijn Wolsink - Kindness Holiday SeasonHoliday Season! Yay!
Happy times for many and not so happy times for others.

I wonder what is possible if you would have a sweet and delicate look at what you would like to create this month?
Here are some things to ponder…

What would the Holiday Season be like if you would…

– be with people you totally enjoy hanging out with?
– give yourself and your body -more- choice?
– truly enjoy every bite of food you eat?
– know it when your body has had enough food?
– choose to be with yourself for a bit if you would like to?
– know that choosing for you does not have to mean you are choosing against others?
– have a look at the ‘ have-to’s ‘ and things you usually do to please others?
– choose to enjoy the ‘ have-to’s ‘ if you are going to do them anyway?
– keep on ‘returning to sender’ all the holiday stress you are picking up from others?
– know and expand your own space, energy and lightness?
– reach out to others your self when you are lost in your own space?
– be present in every moment?
– be kind to you?
– be kind to your body?
– be kind to others?
– be in harmony with yourself, your body and your surroundings?

What would you like your holiday season to be like…?
What an amazing holiday season is truly possible?

Me and my ‘Dead’ Grandpa

Merlijn Wolsink - Me and my 'dead' grandpa
A couple of days before his passing, after the first preview of the show “La Cage Aux Folles” in which I played and supervised back then.

Yesterday, it was 4 years ago that my dear grandpa passed away. Jan Brillemans. Sweet, kind, caring man.

After dealing with ALS (that the world now knows about, because of the ALS ICEBucket Challenge) he chose to go himself. It was pretty peaceful and most of the close family was there to support him while leaving his body.

Yesterday I got a lot of messages wishing me strength, love and more. Thank you all so much!
To be quite honest, I’m not sad at all…

I’m willing to share a pretty vulnerable story with you. Read on if you like 🙂

At first, I missed him a lot, because his body wasn’t there anymore. 
If only I knew then what I know now… As you might know, I talk to dead people 🙂 In fact, I still have an awesome relationship with my Granddad. One which is probably even better now than when he still had his body. 
Funny right? I ‘secretly’ enjoy it 😉 as I do not talk about this a lot with other people.

After he had left his body, I didn’t realize yet that a lot of what I had always felt, was my awareness of entities. 
He himself never really believed in ‘afterlife stuff’, al least, that’s what he said. I guess he could not deny that any longer after he had no body anymore himself and ‘only’ was a spirit, the psychology without a body. LOL.

I remember I felt, or probably WAS, uplifted and supported when I sang and played piano at his funeral. Everything went LIGHT and magical and I had this vague idea that he was there to contribute…

It’s so weird actually that we mainly only relate to people’s bodies as the totality of them, while it’s their energy, psychology and character that creates their personality. When the body dies, it does not mean the Being dies along with that…

He has been around me ever since he left his body. He didn’t really seem to be aware of that himself. He was wandering. Sometimes he tried to contact me with and as a persistent buzzz around my ears, or by pushing against the back of my shoulders… Sometimes I would just not feel like I was being myself: then he was inside of my body. Deceased loved ones tend to do that when they still want to be with you, be close to you and take care of you… When they are not fully conscious of all of that them selves… not such a bright  and healthy idea to do it that way. I felt weird, creeped out, not knowing what the hell was going on. I could even smell the chemically imprinted medication and anesthetics that he still carried with him. It even made me feel sick and I thought It had something to do with me… Well, it did. It was my awareness of his presence and him trying to communicate with me.

When I got to more of the Access Consciousness® and Talk To The Entities classes, this topic kept on coming up for me and I got to step into a different perception and relationship with him. Both our lives opened up into something new.

He visited me often. When I got more skilled, aware and more at ease with being THAT aware, I actually helped and facilitated him to get rid off all the medication left-overs and the trauma and emotions that the dis-ease and life had caused him. That was some heavy shit. Blah… You don’t wanna carry that around! Wouldn’t you wanna be clear of all of that? As well after your body dies? So you have more choice as an infinite being ? 
It’s one thing to care for people when they still have their body and it’s another thing to care for them when they have left their body, and still have all the energetic patterning, that will keep on creating their existence as a being.

He was super relieved and happy after that. How can I tell? I know. It was so awesome that we both went beyond what we had considered possible. Everytime things got lighter, brighter, happier, cooler and it changed for him and for me. I would notice him more clearly, if not clearer than when he still had his body. He got more present and aware himself.

Why did he keep on knocking on my door? I was one of the only people that was willing to have a conversation with him as a ghost. 
I wonder who else can say that? For me it’s a true gift of my willingness to be aware of everything.

He as well tried to reach out to others in the family. He’s been pretty persistent, got through to some people and others don’t wanna know about it and mainly reject the idea. Thats totally cool, although they probably don’t know what they are missing out on… I asked him to back off a little, as some were getting all dramatic and their bodies would go crazy. People’s bodies always show the presence of entities, even when the person self is not willing to know about it. LOL. Ah well… Some noticed and contacted me asked me for my practical help, as they were just a tat scared and yet totally aware of him being present. That has created some cool changes in the family. If only one person has more ease with something, it energetically ripples through the whole family and beyond.

My grandma, as the amazing magical being that she is, still notices the lights flicker at the dining room table. We have super cool conversations about it, sometimes he is there too to chat along and flicker the lights to let her know he’s there. Old play monger… LOL. I totally love my grandma for being so interested in for it her own life and their relationship. I won’t say more about that as they is her own personal story.Merlijn Wolsink - Jan Brillemans - Opi - Granddad

I’m so glad being aware does not require me to ‘believe’ in the unseen. 
I don’t need prove for something I’ve been aware of all my life already. 
I’m just aware and I’m having fun with it and it has totally changed my experience of ‘life’ and ‘death’. 
What if life doesn’t stop when your body dies?

Love you grandpa. 
You’re still cool, if not cooler. 
Glad you’re still popping your head around the corner, to have a little ‘cuppa’, or a little chat, or some creative or musical inspiration…

How much more fun can we have? What else is possible?

What is True Kindness?

Merlijn Wolsink - What is True Kindness?Do you remember what true Kindness is?
Do you remember when you were a little baby?
Or other baby’s that are just being their own ‘little’ selves?
One of a Kind?

Are you one of a Kind? Is everyone one of a kind?
How many people are truly kind to themselves?

I know this: what’s true to you is and feels ‘LIGHT’.
What’s not true to you is and feels ‘HEAVY’. It does not resonate with your true , authentic being.

Heavy is mostly how we have learned to be, learned to adapt, blend in, don’t just be outstanding and authentic. Basically, learning yourself to be unkind to you, so you fit in with the rest.

Have you noticed most people don’t even have a sense of what is true for them and just sorta roll along with everyone else’s opinion?
How many people actually have a sense of what their own true being is like? Let alone true kindness… and their own true ‘kind’…

I don’t mean ‘own true kind’ as a way to separate from others, or to fix yourself into a conclusion of who you are, like “I am what I am.”
I mean acknowledging your own true Being. Do we even still know what that is?

Most of the time, ‘being kind’ to other people, is being or doing exactly what people can receive or are asking for. On THAT very moment. If they are patterned and used to unkindness, being everything they grew up with that is not truly them, they will most likely not be able to receive something else that resonates with their own true kindness, their true being.
They might not even be aware of the reality that they are the ones that Invite kindness or unkindness into their world… Inviting what is true for them, or what is not true for them.

Thats what I enjoy about babies. Even though they come in with their psychologic backpack, they are  not yet molested and broken by the cruelty and unkindness of this reality. They don’t function from the judgments of what right and wrong and they will start protesting intuitively when you are doing or being something that is not truly ‘kind’ in essence. They ARE. Being themselves.

Nature is even more extreme in that sense. If you pull the grass out of he ground it will grow itself back eventually. It does not have an opinion, though it has consciousness that automatically creates from true kindness. Animals just walk away from you when you are being unkind to yourself. They might come back and sit on your lap when you are being true to yourself, when you are not surrounding yourself in ‘judgment clouds’.

I wonder if Kindness is actually and endlessly, even expanding light possibility of Being Yourself?

If you were being Kind to You, what would it be like?
If you were being Kind to others, what would it be like?

Are You Carrying Your Family History And Issues On Your Back?

Merlijn Wolsink Family History IssuesHere’s another message of one of my AMAZING clients.
Sessions go wondrous ways and things show up you didn’t even consider to be taking up space, preventing you to live freely!

“So much has changed after the session with you last thursday.
Thank you so much! I’m feeling like a soft boiled egg, haha. Delicious!
I have kept on listening to the recording and that ONE molecule we turned has set some many things in movement… Phenomenal!

And… You asked me what I had made so vital about processing sensorial susceptibility…
As I’m playing with my knitting work, I notice that I’m feeling safer and I’m not being paranoid and hyper cautious (for danger…?) all the time. I don’t even have to doubt the fact that having my own awareness will always keep me safe at any time. I do no longer feel the urge to run away or escape to be safe… I realized that I had been carrying the war my family lived through on my back…! Not anymore! What a relief! Thank you so much!”

What is possible when you clear and change the energies of the past?
What future could you create without all that baggage?